It is annoying to me when I see the same “how can I get this guy to love me” question every day of the week. But I understand that new people haven’t seen the question before, and for most people, if it happened before they got here, then it’s like it never happened.
Eventually people may learn to search for a question, to see if it’s already been asked and answered. Even then, it can be really hard to find the duplicate, since people use slightly different words for the same thing, and they may not be that good at designing search queries, and they may not have the patience to go through several pages looking for their question.
So, I figure it’s on me. If I’m annoyed, I’ll go elsewhere. There are usually other questions that interest me. SOmetimes I’m willing to revisit repeat questions. See if any new ideas have arrived. I used to hop on and paste a link to the same question, but I quickly decided that’s too much work and it’s also exceedingly annoying. I don’t need to be question police. We have mods for that.