Just do what you do. My house is the same shit. I do all my own dishes as I wash them. My roommates do not do theirs. I could care less, it’s their dishes. When they want to eat that sucks for them. You do not have to do their shit for them, just work around it. You are a dude and most likely in college so who gives a rats ass.
I do not clean much, I just clean as shit gets dirty. I finally decided to clean my crib, and I just threw all the dirty shit they left for me in the trash (everyone but me left for the summer).
I refuse to do other people’s work. I do all of mine and that is all that matters to me.