My ex has filed for divorce, I have already signed the papers. My ex never really wanted to get married, never acted like a married person and we were only married for a few months. My s/o is very controlling in every sense of the word. When my s/o discovered I actually had a backbone and wouldn’t just lay down and do what they wanted they went ahead and filed for divorce. We had issues like any other marriage, but I was told that everything was my fault. As hard as it was when my s/o decided to end things, looking back on it now, I count my blessings and thank God that this relationship only lasted a short while. My s/o says that they have nothing to work on when it comes to whats inside. My question is: Will a person such as my ex ever really be happy with anybody else if they have that kind of mentality? The only person that would ever be happy with my ex would have to be a person that has no problem being bossed around and doesn’t mind being treated like a second class citizen. I just want my ex to be happy.