Some people have a “natural” ability to lead. Though, lets not get confused between narcissism in its rawest form and leadership.
Some people (most people) want to lead, but, have to become aware of who they are and how to adjust in order to lead. The difference between good leaders and bad leaders is their poor understanding of the people around them.
For me, my leadership skills became a light bulb moment. I recognized the positive in myself. A greater level of confidence, confidence without condemnation to others. This gave me a higher, more focused level of confidence.
With that I became more insightful as to how to use it directly towards people.
As the saying goes, ” you need to dress for success.” Not only on the outside but in the inside too.