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I see now said the blind man.
Ok, so being an asshole is not synonymous to being a guy. I think women think that if they were only respected for their thoughts, ideas and not objectified as being sexy then they can be transgender.
But a women pretending to be a guy still comes across as a women or as an asshole guy. It’s not that they are objectified for being a women or disrespected for their ideas, but an attractive woman actually gets more repect, not less. How do we know? Because a man saying some of the things that women say would be trounced or dismissed. A woman’s idea about what it is to be a man is way off, because they’re not men. Likewise a man can never truly know what it means to be a woman. For example, I’m a big guy and I can kick some ass, but I can’t use that. If I do then I’m a bully or at worst a criminal.
My only outlet is to be a dick which I sometimes relish :) But it beats incarceration for manslaughter.
But we all have to be who we are.
I think the boys at South Park said it best in their Team America movie. Perhaps the funniest movie in the last decade:
“Pussies don’t like dicks, because pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes: assholes that just want to shit on everything. Pussies may think they can deal with assholes their way. But the only thing that can fuck an asshole is a dick, with some balls. The problem with dicks is: they fuck too much or fuck when it isn’t appropriate – and it takes a pussy to show them that. But sometimes, pussies can be so full of shit that they become assholes themselves… because pussies are an inch and half away from ass holes.”