1) They are kinky and want a woman who doesn’t have ahem traditional sexual ideas.
2) They are odd in their political/religious beliefs and want someone who won’t be critical.
3) Weird past, weird hobbies, etc.
It can be 1 or more of the above…or something else. If you’re curious, then ask.
Yeah—my first impulse was to say they want an open mind in the bedroom. But possibly also open to new experiences elsewhere like hiking or repelling or skiing or sushi or whatever. They might just really like to try new things.
@EmpressPixie None of the men I’ve ever heard use the phrase “open minded” in the context of dating were talking about intellectual pursuits. The last guy I heard use that phrase broke up with his last girlfriend because she wouldn’t do anal.
@EmpressPixie brings up some more key terms to be defined.
Sushi eating hikers- lesbians camping trips with him and her girlfriend.
male is not an easy language
@The_Compassionate_Heretic: Excellent point of the anal sex! I forgot to add that to the list of shite I’ve heard.
I always say, “after you…” so far no takers. ha ha ha pussies.
most guys that i know tell me that they want a girl that is open minded as in that they want her to be open to new things and know how to express themselves in the open….to have their(her) own opinions and share them in public….
In my experience and practice it just means that anything is open to discussion by either party. Nothing wrong with that. But no means nyuh-uh and that is that unless the naysayer brings it up again. But no getting all pissy if it is brought up for discussion.
Male is really not complex.
We want to eat, sleep and see someone naked daily. If those three could be combined succesfully life would be complete and have no further purpose.