@YARNLADY – My in-laws (a particular set, there are two – divorce…blah!) are the rudest people on the planet and they never relay a message, or they question you about a private matter. The last time this happened, my doctor’s office was calling about some lab results, my FIL tried to (many times) get them to give him the results, so he could deliver them. When he was told no, he told them how rude they were being towards him.
GRR!