I was absolutely terrified about having babies. So terrified, in fact, that I managed to avoid it for seven years of our marriage. My fears revolved around whether or not I could possibly be a good mother (I was sure I couldn’t). But, my husband really, really wanted kids, and I finally relented.
I still remember the moment the pregnancy test came back positive. I was elated and devastated at the same time. All through the nine months I went back and forth between feeling “ready” and feeling absolute, gut-wrenching panic. And, ready or not, the baby came and I was awash in love.
As others have said, I don’t believe you’re ever truly “ready” because you can’t possibly know what it’s like to have a baby until you have one. It’s the most wondrous and terrifying experience I know—and well worth it. But you sort of have to decide, “I’m going to do it” regardless of whether or not you “feel” ready for it.