I just thought of another possibility – How about doing somthing to develop that spark with your current partner? You can actually create mad passionate love. Here some tips I found at ehow.com:
Make a conscientious decision that your marriage will be more than average. Before anything can change in your marriage, your mindset has to change. You have to decide from the onset that you want a good, solid romantic relationship with your spouse. The hardest part is just deciding and then doing it.
Communicate to Him How You Really Feel. Once you have decided that you want a great relationship, tell your husband how you really feel. Experts far and in-between have all agreed that communication is one of the biggest problems facing many marriages
Compliment Him. Talk to him about how you feel about him.
Introduce “Lagniappe” into your marriage. What is Lagniappe? Lagniappe is a French word that I heard often used in New Orleans that means “a little something extra”. I guarantee that if you introduce Lagniappe into your marriage you will be ahead of the crowd.
Invest in some sexy lingerie. Yeah, there she goes saying the “L” word Lingerie. Ladies I am telling you that there are very few men who do not like women in Lingerie.
And last, but certainly not least, learn the difference between sex and love making. Create an atmosphere of comfort or excitement depending on personal preferences. Use your creativity, style and imagination to facilitate an exotic platform for your sexual and sensual illustration. The idea is to create satisfaction of body, mind and spirit, a totally fulfilled being.
The ball is in your court.