@nikipedia The guys who approached you who you described as “fucking creepy” were not using this method. Don’t be so convicting without having full knowledge of the subject topic. Your specific peeves: the guys were terrible listeners, didn’t know when to take no for an answer, were obsessed with themselves”
These are the exact things the method teaches against. Believe it or not, the man or men you have selected to be around or in your life have used these methods without even knowing it. It came naturally to them. Some men have this. Others don’t. Is it wrong that they try to improve themselves? We all lack somewhere within ourselves. I don’t know how to swim. Is it wrong if I seek out a lifeguard to give me swimming lessons?
As far as guys being emotionally crippled. Well, we’re not all 100% perfect and we are our own worst critics. Thus making us all insecure about something or another in ourselves whether it be a physical flaw or emotional flaw. It’s still an insecurity equating to being emotionally crippled. Look within yourself and I’m sure you’ll find plenty of things you hate about yourself.
Your last line “But I’m not a model, so what do I know.” was a sarcastic stab at me for having a model for a girlfriend. The general stereotype of models as being dumb while you presented yourself as a know-it-all without being familiar with the subject topic.