Fluther: What should a do? Im confused about a guy?

What should a do? Im confused about a guy?

Asked by SamiRae527 (45

) August 2nd, 2009
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So there’s this guy who ive been seeing for a couple of months and we sleep together also, hes leaving in a few short days for college we get along awesome and i thought he really liked me but now hes changed and we hardly see each other do you think i should move on

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Just do it (him).

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RealEyesRealizeRealLies (30954

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I’d be getting ready to move on. More than likely, you’ll have to.

I dumped a bf before I went to college. You start preparing for your next stage of life. Being tied down by a high school relationship is really difficult in college and may not be healthy for either of you.

Moving on may be best not just for him but for you as well.

seekingwolf (10410

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sounds like it, yes. you’ll be fine.

Simone_De_Beauvoir (39057

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He’s getting ready to leave for college and start a whole new chapter in his life.

Sounds like you might have been a summer fling. Doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you, just means that maybe you were temporary. Move on.

Likeradar (19583

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I agree with all of the above. He’s moving on – it’s time. Now you move on, it’s time to start again!

cak (15863

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He is looking ahead. College is such a time of change that is very unlikely your relationship would survive unscathed even if he was committed to trying, but from your report, he is not.

You deserve more from a guy. Make sure you are not available for easy sex on his school breaks.

marinelife (62485

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