Neither. Sorry. I know the question was asked and clearly offered two tantalizing choices to consider. As typical, I usually choose to respond to questions when they move me in a direction where I find myself inspired to share a thought, or spin a tale. You decide which. However, mercifully, I’ll try to apply some economy to this one.
Individuals I truly know nothing about inspire the most delicious fantasies. Mysterious. Undiscovered. Unknown. Captured by my mind, forever. Unexpected events, which yield surprising possibilities, are by far the richest places to go looking when you delve deep to initiate a sexual session within your mind. Just think about a brief casual observance you make of someone you pass on the street – eyes meet, eyes avert, either could work. A person you catch a glimpse of as the elevator door closes, separating you from them. Forever? Across a crowded room, which annoyingly, you are never able to find your way gracefully across. There they are, glistening before you for that fleeting moment. The hair, the clothes, the face, the body, the gestures, the aromas, the sounds, the lighting, the aura, and yes, the elements of a scenario… Like being an Indy film director gathering reels of footage on location. You then take all of those harmless voyeuristic images and emotions home and then, begin to wonder . . . See where it leads you. Edit your movie in the non-linear production suite of your brain, and change the ending, the beginning, and yes, even elongate the middle, if that becomes your wish.