This may seem childish, (but I think a lot of women and posssibly even men feel this way at some point in their lives). I was just wondering how to get over being jealous. I know my fiance loves me and would never do anything to hurt me but if I feel like there are so many beautiful women in the world that what really stops any man from seeing someone more beautiful and wishing he were with her instead? My fiance always tells me I’m the most beautiful woman in the world to him but I don’t really believe that. There is always someone prettier.. So how do you get over that? I know jealousy is bad for relationships but I don’t know how I will ever get past it and quite honestly, it sucks.

By jealous, I don’t mean that I’m bothered by him hanging out with his friends and doing things without me. An example of jealousy is walking through the mall and a beautiful girl walking by and me thinking he is looking at her. I feel so childish for even bringing it to his attention, but it drives me insane.

This causes a lot of friction in our relationship because he is the same way with me but we do love eachother and want to get married. I just wish there was a way we could try and resolve these jealousy issues we have going on because I assume if we don’t do it now, it will get worse and worse. ANY IDEAS?