I’ve believed I’ve loved more than one woman at once. However, the women I was with didn’t believe it, and all of them had the integrity not to let them get involved with another woman’s man. I still believe it’s possible in theory. In practice, however, I have always fallen in love with women whose ethics would not allow them to participate in such a scenario.
One of my girlfriends said she believed in “free love.” It took a while for her to convince me that it was a good thing. Then, when I finally tried to practice it, she discovered she didn’t like it. I think that being in love with more than one woman at once, if you try to practice it, has too many logistical problems to be able to stop from hurting the others rather too much.
From what I’ve heard, polyamorous relationships have a lot of issues, especially with jealousy, to work through. I’m not convinced that people actually effectively work these issues through and come to a point where they are no longer any trouble. I think people tend to be pretty selfish about relationships of a romantic nature, and that, if they do agree to be in a polyamorous relationship, that it may have something to do with self-esteem issues.