i just do it to see if he cares bout my feelings
not. cool. that’s the kind of stupid nonsense that has guys hating women. If you want to be mad at him cause he did something fine. I can accept that but if you like a guy and you get along and you want to maintain a relationship (of any level above advisary) with him it is not ok to get mad at him just to test his resolve. My ex and even my girl friends they all have their faults but I thank my lucky stars every day I’ve never had a close relationship with a girl who would do that.
Think of men as animals. a puppy if you will. if the puppy makes a mess you yell at it and smack it with a paper (just an example.. please don’t call Animal Rights) if the puppy is just playing with a bone in the yard you don’t walk up and smack it just to see if it still remembers the lesson.
Please I beg of you unless you’re married and looking for make-up sex do not test a man’s resolve like that. I’ve SEEN it backfire more than once and i’ve even seen it from the girls side. It’s not a good idea. Just be truthful. You can filter out 90% of the idiots by seeing which ones can appreciate girls who aren’t into subterfuge like that.