My first reaction would be further apart. Instead of sitting with friends and talking, I’m typing and looking at your avatars on the screen. How has this brought anyone closer? On the other hand, if you are introverted, or live far away from people, or are just shy – this is a way to connect – and ultimately meet up with people, too.
With the kids – I’d rather spend quality time with my teens – but it’s not always possible. When I get a text “I love you” from them, I know it’s the equivalent of writing a real letter, posting it, and even placing a stamp on it, for their generation. This new generation grew up with the technology; we, on the other hand, understand (and therefore compare) both worlds.