Yeah, it is a strange request isn’t it? It all came about when I wasn’t feeling well on Friday. All I said to him was, “Hmm…I’m not feeling too good and don’t have an appetite. Not sure what it is…maybe it’s just a bug that will pass”.... The next day, he acted all distant and all with me and when we talked about it, he told me it was because I was being cold and “professional” and not being fully expressed with him about my not feeling well. We even reenacted that “scene” because I wanted to understand what he was talking about and he basically said, I should have whined about it, something like “Urgh….I feel awful and don’t want to eat. Can we just leave so I can get well? etc etc etc” (I can’t even act it out to be honest, since that is so not me. I never whine.) So he can say “Oh honey, that’s ok. We’ll leave and we’ll get you something to make you fell better, etc etc”....When we reenacted it, he said I was so bad at it that I’ll need to be 5x more whiny so I’ll end up being halfway whiny.
As I’m writing this, I can’t help laughing. It’s so melodramatic. I love my boyfriend very much but this request is making me question if I’m crazy for being in love with a boy who wants me to be whiny.