Well, as I see it then, I can understand how a person could preliminarily get emotional about it, but fidelity is to me a far more important concept than sexual orientation. What I’d want to know is, will it be a problem. In other words, when I’m in a relationship, I’d like to think it’s for the long haul, and that demands exclusivity. If his being bi-sexual is going to present itself as a problem for him in that he feels he’s having chicken every night for dinner and every now and then he has to satisfy his craving for a steak (if you know what I mean), and he’s going to end up cheating on you…but only with guys…you’re all the woman he needs, but as a woman, you can’t satisfly that man craving, well then that would be a dealbreaker as I see it. Now if the person knew going into the relationship that he was bisexual and his ideal was to find a person, regardless of gender, with whom to build a relationship, then that’s one thing, that would engender a bit more trust. But a person with unexplored feelings might be more prone to act on them out of self discovery, and it’s very hard to make a person deny who they are. You can try, but chances are you will fail. So, I wouldn’t let a label define the rest of the relationship, I’d judge him by his actions, not by his tendencies.