Ok so I’ve been away from Fluther for awhile. Plenty of notifications to check. But it’s a great site and I’m desperate for good advice. Anyway, here’s the back story: Last Friday night I spent time with a girl I’ve been best friends with for awhile. We’ve talked every day for about three months and gotten along well. Saturday night I spent time with her again, this time more as a date. Monday night we agreed we were together as boyfriend and girlfriend. And Tuesday night her parents made us break up because they don’t allow her to date yet. If you’re wondering, she’s 13 and I’m 15.

I realize I made a couple mistakes in all this. Regardless, I now feel that we should respect her parents decision and just be friends for awhile. The only problem is that now her parents don’t want us spending time together at all. It was a bad idea for me to go against them in the first place and I’m not doing it again. But I enjoy being with her so much and I need them to allow me to see her again. They don’t really know me much at all. I want to earn their trust and respect back and in a best-case-scenerio I’d talk to them and they would allow us to see each other again. Except she doesn’t like the idea of me talking to her parents. She says “they really don’t care and they won’t like you automatically.”

Keep in mind I’m much more interested in hearing what I should do now to fix this and not so much in hearing what I did wrong. So, what should I do to earn her parents respect back and get them to let us hang out again? If you need anything clarified just ask.

Short Version: My best girl friend’s parents don’t want me and her to see each other. I need suggestions as to how I should get her parents to let us. I’m not a bad guy. I need a way to make her parents realize that though. Any idea?

Topics: relationships, parents, dating, girlfriends, friendship, trust, respect