Since when does one’s personal life have anything to do with their professional ethic?
If they cross paths, then sure, that’s a valid argument (unless you’re Doctor House) I’m willing to have. But from what I gather, there is no evidence that she is irresponsible or otherwise unfit to care for @rangerr‘s sister. She set up a profile on Facebook for her friends, not so that her employers can see and make judgment on. You can find some sort of dirt on anyone if you dig hard enough.
You guys ever get shit faced on a Tuesday and show up hung over on Wednesday, yet make it through the day no problems? Do you have sex on a regular basis, or with multiple partners, ever? How’d you like it if your employer found out and said, “I’m sorry, I’m going to have to fire you, thus destroying your only source of income because I believe that what you do on your own time – something that doesn’t affect me, my business or your work – is distasteful.”
You all are acting like she’s a serial killer. She speaks like that either because that’s the environment she was raised in or she’s still young. I’m going to be controversial here and go a step forward to say that this stems from prejudice, a fear of where she comes from. It’s her personal life, stay out of it, unless you find out she’s doing something illegal.
Your sister’s life is valuable, @rangerr, and I understand and accept that. But by saying that she’s unfit for her job – something I expect she was trained and qualified for – is ridiculous. Like I said, use knowledge of her in the classical world, not the electronic one.