This seems like a simple question but I don’t know what to do. And this is wordy. Sorry.

I’m in a group of about 15 people. Some of us are closer than others, but we all consider each other friends.

There are 2 babies coming soon to the group. I put myself in charge of getting the baby gifts together. Almost everyone has given me money for the gifts, some more than others.

There are 2 people in this group, a couple who happen to be pretty close friends of mine, who did not chip in. They said they’re not in a financial position to do so. Whether or not that’s true doesn’t really matter, I guess.

So… for the card. Do I sign it “From All of Us” even though it’s not and some people will get credit for nothing, or do I sign names and blatantly leave the people out? What’s the etiquette here? Having people sign it themselves isn’t an option right now, unfortunately.

Topics: friends, gifts, ettiquette, cards, baby gift