Some women are just less sensitive than others (unfortunately). I had/have the same problem… I could probably count the number of times in the past 8 years that i’ve actually orgasmed during intercourse. And usually the orgasm sucks. D: I didn’t even realize I was done most of the time because I had single half orgasms instead of the multiple ones I was used to doing it manually.
Talking to your boyfriend about it can be really awkward, I know. But in the end it can make a world of a difference… just do it! He’s your bf, you should be able to talk to him about anything. Just do it in a way that doesn’t make him think that its HIS fault that you can’t orgasm during sex. If you’re not shy about it, use toys/vibrators on yourself during foreplay, and ask him to use it on you. Just don’t expect him to be a total pro at it. He probably wont be very sure of himself, and you’ll have to walk him through it.
(Wow, this post is WAY to long!!! My bad!)
Summary: Foreplay! Don’t be shy! Foreplay! Use toys! Oh yeah, and don’t forget about the FOREPLAY. haha