Before you ask a question, search to see if someone else has already asked it.
No personal attacks.
In general, when asking questions or writing responses, try to make Fluther the type of site that you would like to visit often, and not like all the other Q&A sites out there.
There’s no way to tell who lurve comes from so they can’t tell if you’re stalking. I mean- if someone makes a great answer, don’t be afraid to let them know!
There is a wealth of information about this site at the links at the bottom of this page. One very good way to learn more is to read the archive blogs.