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Does virginity define a girl's value?

As an Asian girl living in Asia, I’ve been brought up with values on how I should keep my virginity until after marriage. My family talked about how it will make the guy you will marry, disappointed to find out that you are not a virgin on the night of marriage.

At the age of 21, I am still a virgin. To some, it might be something to laugh at. But to the older generation in the Asian community, it is something commendable. To them, being a non-virgin before marriage = cheap and loose.

What is your opinion on that? What do you people living in the West think about such beliefs/views?

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