My husband and I have been to several weddings in the past years, and for two of the weddings, we never received a thank-you note!

~I know that traditionally the new couple has a year to send them out but that time has long passed for both.

~This does not appear to trend to age/maturity, as one couple is in their early 20s and another couple is in their 40s!

~Both couples we have seen again, with no mention of the gift (both times, were $$$ gifts), or even a mention about it (an ‘oops sorry about no note’!) kind of thing.

Is it that people just honestly forget about it, or lose track of who gave what and then figure that it’s too late to send one so they just do not bother?