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What are the personal consequences of hook-ups at parties?

I’ve never hooked up with anyone at a party in a once-and-done kind of experience, but I did have a girlfriend go upstairs with the host, so I know it happens. That sucked, to say the least. It wasn’t that I minded her hooking up with someone; it was that she did it right in front of me! Rubbing my face in it, so to speak. Our relationship did not last long after that.

Have you had the experience of hooking up with someone at a party? Could you give us some idea of the events leading to the hook-up?

What did it mean to you afterwords? Were you happy about it? Was it easy to forget? Did you never even think about it? Were there any consequences of note to you, personally?

Did you have another relationship at the time you did it? If so, what were the consequences of that hook-up, either to you, personally, or to your relationship?

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