I’m in a relationship and I seem to constantly get made out to be the bad guy or made to be in the wrong.
Are you being told you are wrong or is that your frustration for not understanding what needs or wants your woman has in relation to your own?
I do nothing but try my hardest for this woman and do every little thing in my power to make it work but I feel like I just come out worse for wear everytime.
Are you feeling this way based on what she says she’s looking for from you, do you tell her what you want from her, do you tell her how important she is to you that you are trying in the first place for a serious relationship?
Am I the only person stupid enough to do this?
No way and it’s not to do with stupidity unless she is verbally and/or physically abusing you and then that would mean she’s not worth your efforts whether she accepts them or not. You feel unappreciated and probably unreciprocated. Again, have you said what you want from her?
Will things ever change?
They might if the two of you talk and are honest about what you each really want from each other and then decide if you can be that for each other. Could be you want this more than she does and she’s just making time because she can’t yet justify cutting you loose. Maybe you feel that way about her that she’s not your optimum choice but you are stubborn to try and make something serious anyway?