I’m not sure how I would feel about a woman who cheated. I guess I’ve known several, and I have found them to be rather admirable people, otherwise. Ironically, they were very protective of my family, completely supporting my desire to stay with my family, even when I wavered in that position.
On the other hand, If someone needs monogamy, then they shouldn’t trust me—at least in that area. I suppose I wouldn’t blame anyone who didn’t trust me in other areas because of that. However, I feel like I am an honorable and loyal person in all areas except for that one. I was physically with another woman once, and have not touched anyone else besides my wife before or since.
But I have a tendency to feel about myself the way other people feel about cheaters, and when people judge me, it is kind of a relief. I have no idea why people such as my wife haven’t given up on me. I don’t deserve it. Despite that, a lot of people seem to admire me, although, on occasion, I try really hard to stop that kind of thing from happening.