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When meeting a girl for the first time, what is the best way of attracting her?

Asked by cornbird (1750points) December 7th, 2009
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Especially when she is in a group with other girls, or when she is by herself.

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ItalianPrincess1217's avatar

Eye contact, confident body language, and show her (and only her) attention.

CMaz's avatar

Usually hello is a good start.

ccrow's avatar

Not acting like a jerk. :-p

Jeruba's avatar

When meeting a girl for the first time, perhaps it would be good to get to know her a little before working on attracting her. It sounds like you are making an instantaneous snap judgment about which one you want to attract, based solely on appearance. If that is not the way you want to be judged yourself—if you think actions and behavior and character and personality ought to have something to do with it—perhaps you should accord her the same latitude.

Also girls are not mass-produced Barbies. They may be are attracted to different things. One likes a quiet, dreamy, poetic type, another a life-of-the-party clown, another a sober scientific mind, another a health-and-fitness nut.

Your best bet is to act like the person you are so that someone who likes your type will be able to pick you out.

Forgive me if I am misinterpreting your remarks.

justme1's avatar

be nice to her, but not fake. just yourself…

PretentiousArtist's avatar

Show your Pecs
if you got any

ItalianPrincess1217's avatar

@Jeruba If I could give you 20 GA’s I would!

rangerr's avatar

Take your pants off.

cornbird's avatar

@rangerr they are off already

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cornbird's avatar

just kidding….. comon im not like that…gimme a break

cyn's avatar

Smile and look at her eyes, not anywhere else. Mayhaps, say hello.

hungryhungryhortence's avatar

@cornbird: Good for you if your pants are off, that means you’re thinking with both brains and not just one. That means you really care and what girl wouldn’t appreciate that? <<tilde goes here.

Really though, smile at her and get in her proximity for no reason at all than drop a smile, I’m sure she’ll pick up on your initial interest and be able to respond one way or another when you approach for some conversation.

PretentiousArtist's avatar

Seriously though, you can attract her
with an open mind

J0E's avatar

Bursting out in song usually works for me, especially if I happen to have my banjo with me.

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ratboy's avatar

Lick your eyebrows.

rangerr's avatar

@ratboy I LOVE when guys do that.

reacting_acid's avatar

Be charming and funny. And confident. :) Good Luck

IZD90's avatar

Turn your Denzel Washington swag on!

coolkek's avatar

confidence. but not cockiness. Confidence can turn anyone into a really desirable person.
smiling, laughing and listening to what she has to say.

Sampson's avatar

Spread your tail feathers out and coo loudly. If your train is more impressive than the other guys, the hen is yours.

delirium's avatar

@Sampson That only works if the girl is a bit of a birdbrain.

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