@Darwin‘s right. We do need a bit of shepherding from time to time.
If you’re coming from a place that is lightly moderated or not at all (as some of our past waves of new arrivals did), you may find it hard at first to get used to intervention from the mods. But that is one of the strengths of this place. They work hard to make sure the atmosphere remains hospitable. I am thankful for them every single day and don’t mind a bit when they ask me to redo something.