@whatabouteyebrows: When I met my boyfriend for the first time in person (long distance thing), he had still never had his first kiss, and he was so shy. So am I, actually… but anyway… we talked for a while… me at the top of the bed, him sitting near the end. Then when he felt more comfortable, he moved and sat next to me. When I felt like he was doing okay with the shyness, I laid down in front of him on my stomach… still just talking. Then when he felt okay with that, he slouched down so he was laying down but propped up on an elbow. So then, when I was sure he’d be okay with it, I leaned in and gently touched my lips to his.. let it linger a few seconds. Then I stopped… looked him in the eye, and I saw a little surprise but definitely okay… so I leaned in and kissed him again… worked from touching lips, to pressing lips, to sort of sandwiching our lips, to the biggie lol
Seems like a lot of work, sure… but when at 20 you still haven’t kissed a girl and you’re so painfully shy, it’s important to make sure everyone is comfortable and relaxed, and that you don’t push too much. From the time I opened the door and saw him for the first time to the kiss, it was about an hour. But you don’t have the first meeting problem lol.