Super slow. He didn’t seem like my type and I was generally wary of being asked out. I had seen him around but spent a decent amount of time with mutual friends who introduced us. Talking over aim, talking in dorm lounges, and late nights were the start (2 months). Eventually upgraded to “I could try a relationship” and movie nights (1 month). Then became, “We’re dating… whoa.” He said “I love you” first. (My wariness lasted… hrmmmm…. 5 months or so.) Sex at 9 months (pure coincidence at the time, really).
First and current boyfriend, has lasted almost 4 years. Slow may not be the best for everyone but it worked out really well for me. Made it easier for us both to lay down what we expected/liked/disliked/needed. And for me to ease up my trust barriers.