I am the oldest person in my extended family this Christmas. My parents ( with the exception of my Step-Mother, who lives in Florida ) have died, my grandparents are all dead, all of my aunts and uncles have died. I would give just about anything to see them this Christmas. If you have family, forgive them the things you think they did wrong, make peace with them, and spent a bit of time with them this Christmas. It may be the last Christmas you will be able to do so.