@ the last two: I don’t think she is 43, although it first appears that way. I looked that up too before I first answered. She just asked that question. If she is 43 and did not know the answer to her question, hormones, periods, and how to spell menstrual, there are other problems here. I’m confused by her question, the age 43 and what’s up.
To be concerned about a period because a ‘boyfriend’ is coming, is not outrageous, but most adult men do know it’s going to happen once a month and that’s life.
I am getting the feeling you all act like I said something that is extremely private and uncalled for. I was trying to help Anyone who would ask a question such as this. As I said, if any kid had asked such a question, I would want them to know the whole story, not a part they would not understand. If you know that her situation is different, you could state how it’s different. I wasn’t thinking or stating abstaining from sex, but I’m okay with that too. I’ve seen more problems treating sex casually.
I’m out of information and interest right now. If it helps, great. I don’t believe truth can hurt. As I said, she can ignore it.