This is a subject that I’ve thought about for awhile, as social media trends was part of my job. I believe there is an element of social media as a broader bucket that has evolved out of latchkey kids in the 80’s with computer access redefining community and socialization from the safety of their own locked homes, while their parents were at work. It’s a wonderful thing in some ways, because the Internet can bring both the good and the bad into your home, and provide human connectivity that may not be available in RL. I had a lot of global pen pals as a teen and young adult, and I don’t really see Fluther much different from those exchanges, except 1) they are immediately read, no waiting for the mail to arrive and 2) instead of messaging one person, your communications and thoughts are read by many, with the possibility of forging new relationships.
I find the most damage to communications to come from texting. I see texting as replacing conversations. People will text things that are too stupid to utter in a phone conversation. It becomes addictive, and I’m seeing among the younger people a reduction in the ability to verbally communicate. They cannot articulate a cogent thought. Additionally, the written texting shorthand is its own form of language development, like ebonics, and because of the addictive nature of texting undermines the ability for many to transition between educated written communication and texting shorthand. Additionally, the dangers from texting while driving far exceeds drunk driving.
I’m still out on Twitter; I think it has excellent potential from a business perspective, because it enables grassroots product research and feedback. As a communication tool, like the status line on FB, it’s a way to express emotions, idle mental meanderings, quick updates. It’s a great en masse organizational tool.