I used to love the holidays because I would get to see my Grandfather when he was alive and indulge him in what made him so happy. Other than that, it’s a time to be able to spend with friends and family when many have time off and can be pinned down to just a few locations, all grouped together.
As for gifts, I love giving them but can’t do it as I’d like in recent years so the holidays give me an excuse to think well on just a few things for just a few people. There have been years when I took the opportunity to celebrate just about any holiday as an excuse to take time off work to go somewhere, see someone, give gifts… drink lots of champagne.
Stress is what you let it be, about 30% anyhow. I no longer feel like crap for not sending out hundreds of holiday cards or having to be the one to give the gift someone may have really wanted. No one has turned their back on me yet.