Oh, no :(
I’m so sorry!! That sucks beyond the telling of it, Ranimi. Do you suppose it is too early to feel “right” about it right now? It’s a brand new event, is what I’m noticing. From where I’m sitting, the way you’re feeling currently is right on target with how a normal person would react to being violated. Scared, madder than hell, wondering when and if it is going to happen again…..you’re trust has been shaken! What you thought your reality was has been shattered, which is enough to make ANYBODY feel this way.
I had my car stolen from me at the worst possible moment. I was moving!! At the time I had no husband or children, so everything I owned, minus the furniture, could fit in that car. Everything from my underwear to my grandmother’s senior ring was just – GONE. I literally had NOTHING LEFT. My life was wiped out. I am different today than I was back then, but I took it really, really hard. It took me a year to get over it. Seriously! That’s how ANGRY I got.
My hope is that you are able to feel everything as fully as it is powerful, THEN work on letting it go. To start, let’s have a look at the odds. The chances of you getting robbed again are very, very slim. It was your turn this time, nothing more than that exists. It wasn’t personal, either! Had somebody else owned your house at the time, it would have been they who were robbed. This was a crime of convenience ONLY. It had nothing to do with YOU or your loved ones.
Later on, if you like, we can look at lowering your future odds EVEN FURTHER with some very simple proactive steps. Just come tap me on the shoulder when you’re ready :)
My condolences for this most unhappy event. I hope they catch the bastard (or bitch).