Thankfully, I can trust myself in this, though I call it doing the “life thing”—- whatever brings more life, more trust, more kindness, more love to my family & friends. Oh, don’t get me wrong, like the rest, I’m far from ‘perfection’ (especially when it comes to doing whatever it might be right away) but its the norm for me to choose that “life thing,” at any rate.
…And on occasion, when the ‘rate’ seems pretty high on what it costs me, personally, to choose that “life thing,” my family & friends will always definitely be ‘worth it’—- they have nothing to prove to me: family & friends will always be family & friends.