@Dr.Dredd – thanks for answering! And yes, I will be using professionals. This is not a “do it yourself” project!
@pdworking. Thanks so much for your answer, and great questions. To give you a bit more information, I live in a Chicago condo highrise, but am referring to our historic family home up in Wisconsin. It has been inhabited for many years by my parents, who can no longer care for the dwelling.
Because I have not hired a contractor to oversee this, I guess I am really looking for some help prioritizing. I can only afford to do a bit at a time. A few years ago, I had a new roof put on, and had the chimney restored. Next, I upgraded the electric (old knob and tube wiring), The exterior brick work needs tuckpointing. The plumbing needs to be done. The 32 windows are old and leaky. The old plaster walls are cracking. One of the front porch steps is deteriorating. It is never ending. I had the gutters and downspouts replaced. I had wall sealing done in the basement. I have an arborist looking at some of the huge old trees, and have trimming done every few years of branches overhanging the roof and approaching high wires.
As for using original materials, in some instances it is required. The house is technically classified in the “historic district” and there are specific rules. To give you an idea of how old, there is a wooden turntable in the garage (not electric) which was used to lean on the car and walk around the cement apron until the car was facing out again. There are some very beautiful built-ins and unique (weird!) features…
@gailcalled: Thanks and I’m glad you mentioned sanity. I’m afraid it’s too late for that. I needed your answer 5 years ago! If you know of any great vacation spots, please send brochures!! I sympathize with your suffering and stress. I bet your kitchen is beautiful!
@queenb: Thanks for your suggestion. I have been watching both for years, and have subscribed to This Old House magazine for years as well. They gave me the courage to start any of this!