I think an us and them attitude really hurts us. Our politicans and many in the media are reinforcing this. Not feeling like we all have good intentions and want similar things as Americans. I also think @augustlan point is important, hate and ignorance must be dealt with. If we could just get back to the golden rule it seems everything would be better. Not only treating others as you want to be treated, but treating property as you want your property to be treated. I extend property to the planet…if you would not want polution in your backyard, then you should not pollute anywhere, etc.