“If a guy won’t meet your mother after dating you for a while he is either dating another girl or has disingenuous feelings towards her daughter.” Another question got me thinking about this. My sister had two boyfriends (at different times of course) who would keep coming up with excuses for not coming in and meeting my mom. My mom called it right twice. One finally came in briefly after my mother insisted on it and he could not look my mother in the eye. She wasted a total of 6 years between both guys and she fell madly in love with them. So do you think my mother was just lucky in her assumption or is it a true statement?