@john65pennington, I don’t understand how civil marriage is punishment for traditional marriage advocates. The only change would be that details of the marriage would be worked out beforehand. This would include details about money, support of children, support during illness, what constitutes grounds for divorce, etc. In essence, everything that couples go through during premarital counseling is committed to paper, signed, and is an enforceable document.
There is nothing that says because you have civil ceremony that you cannot have a religious ceremony as well. Even in its current state, a religious wedding does not mean people are married unless they sign the license in the presence of witnesses. That’s the who purpose of the maid of honor and the best man—to witness the signing of the license.