@disturbed_broken I have dealt with a guy like this before.
I met him online on an online poker site. He seemed fine and we started talking on the phone. I would block him if I were you, not call the police because snitching in my book sucks. Unless he has made physical threats to you. This guy I met was really nice at first, then he got to the point of “threatening to kill himself” if I did whatever he didn’t want me to do. That is the sign of control and the main problem I have seen here. Right now it will seem fine, then if you meet with him and date him he will slowly start to take your friends away but do it in such a subtle way that you don’t even realize what he is doing. My guess is right now whenever you say something he doesn’t like or tell him he scares you he gets really sad and ” oh I would never do anything to you baby ” or things of that sort. Or the opposite, where he acts so hurt that he is angry and just so upset that you could ever think that of him.
Not that online dating is a bad thing, or dating a 20 year old, or him sending you pictures (if you wanted them). The issue here is he sounds like he is manipulative by threatening to kill himself if you block him, he wants you to feel sorry for him and stay in contact so he can slowly get control of your mind.
I went through this, and it was a horrible experience. I was 17 at the time and this guy used that to manipulate me. Trust me you are not stupid, you are confused because on one hand at times he seems so sweet and tells you so many nice things. One my ex used was ” you are the most beautiful girl in the world, now many guys will say this to you to tell you what you want to hear, I say this because your outside beauty and your inside beauty together makes you the most beautiful girl in the world” On the other hand though you have a weird feeling about him because he gets “hurt” so easily and will talk to you about his feelings for a long time until you give in usually.
Do yourself a favor, break away before it is too late. You don’t want to let him get you into the state of mind he is aiming for. IT sucks