Do it once shame on you; but do it twice shame on me.
Basically, you screw up you have one more chance. Now, blow that chance and you can kiss your butt good-bye. I prefer not to waste my time holding onto “what if” ‘s..
With all that being said, physical harm is a no second chance situation. I won’t stand for that cowardly crap.
Illegal activity is possible to be a no second chance situation, depending on the activity. Killing someone, selling drugs, rape, abduction; the biggies I’d throw him out like a bag of doggie poo! Something like stealing or possession of drugs (weed in our case) are situations we would talk and work thorough. My Dad attempted to steal a company laptop when I was little. He lost his job and devastated my Mum, she stuck by him, they relocated their family (me and my little sister) moved to a little town, did community service and my sister and I we’re non the wiser. They just recently told us this past fall, it was a hard moment, because what he did drastically altered our lives up till then and we had no idea. But I was in awe of how my parents stuck together and pushed through as a team.
Anyways, I’m babbling! Summary, second chance is as much as I’ll ever give a person.