Accept the bad with the good. When you get married, you make a solemn oath. It typically runs along the lines of:
“I, (Bride/Groom), take you (Groom/Bride), to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.”
You make that commitment before God and man, before state and your mate. So set your face like flint to honor that commitment. If instead you think that you are going to find “the right one” who will agree with every move you make, remain as attractive as the day you met them, and enrich your life in every way, best forget marriage. The moment things become the least inconvenient, and they will, it’s goodbye Charlie, I don’t need this.
I’ve been married now for 35 years and that’s how. The only way this marriage will end for my part is when one of us dies or if she chooses to leave me. I said I was in for life, I swore it as an oath, and I am keeping that promise. Period.