Um… @bean, does he look better after the bleach? ; )
the guitar thing – ouch – why not let the friend that owns the guitar go after it. It’s not you he’s hurting (mostly)
Ouch. Time heals all wounds.
All of your instincts will scream at you relieve the deprivation. It is the glue that has held society together for eons.
Like a bad drug however, you both try yet end up hurting. Some never stop trying.
Did you know that pain is a gift?
When you step on a nail, it tells you DON’T!
When you separate what does it tell you?
Go back…, or can you go back without pain?
In most cases it’s telling you it’s not working. It’s important to try to separate the pain from the decision to separate, and why it appeared a good idea.
There will be times you may have to endure for the sake of a higher calling (kids) – other times it’s important to cut your losses (and theirs too). Life is a series of attempts to find a place in the world.
Carry on Comrade ; )