Well I call my first marriage a sham but I was playing Star Trek Armada (PC game) when she was looking at the company insurance policy. She said “Well, it looks like we have to have a marriage certificate to get insurance for me and the baby” I was like.. oh ok. She then said “Well, maybe we should get married”. I non chalantly stated “Yea, sure.. whatever” Probably the worst mistake I ever made given the fact that I had been thinking about leaving her for some time. But I also had a though that maybe marriage will make the grim situation better. I guess the moral of the story is… If something dosn’t feel right don’t do it. But if something does feel right, then persue it. When i ask my girlfriend to marry me I want it to be romantic, and right for both of us. :-) It will be fun to plan how I am gonna do that.