can anyone suggest a dedicated forum or messageboard (not here) to deal with a particular problem? I don’t want advice from Fluther until I determine that I can’t find a dedicated messageboard which specializes in this type of question…

the problem, in brief: I made an online transaction (not via eBay) via debit card with a person out of state. she conned me and never sent the goods. I went to the bank but I waited too long and they won’t go through the process to try to track her via the electronic “paper trail” of the transaction. because I cannot get ahold of her, I can hardly take her to small claims court.

please don’t suggest contacting so-and-so. I want a messageboard or forum for other people in similar situations before I go into more detail not Fluther.

again, I would like to find a dedicated messageboard or forum for getting assistance and advice. lastly, if that helps, I use Sovereign Bank. on Monday I will contact the debit card company and the Attorney General’s office, etc.. again, I would like places where I can get specialized advice. thanks.