I don’t want my boyfriend to get lap dances, ever. He doesn’t want me to dance with guys where there is contact (I’m in college). Is this fair? I don’t feel like they’re on the same level, since dancing with guys there is no blatantly sexual motives (at least not how I dance), and no one is naked. Am I being unrealistic to suggest that these things are not equivocal? This may seem juvenile, but I’m just curious-please don’t bash my insecurity.