Being in my 40s, I’ve had time to fulfill my fantasies, now I’m more interested in having someone to make love with rather than empty casual sex or even a friend with benefits. In a relationship, sexual compatibility is very important. I am a person who enjoys the physical intimacy as an expression of my feelings on a frequent basis. When I am not in a relationship, sex is not important. If I experience biological urges, I can handle those on my own. Nothing is more incredible than sharing the passion of true lovemaking, and I won’t settle for anything less.